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Will Your Child Continue in the Faith as an Adult?...

Posted by Ron Gilley on Mar 9, 2020 8:50:54 AM

Children saying their prayers in park on a sunny dayAs Christian parents, our most important aim is to see our children walking with the Lord all the days of their lives. When they live under our roof, we can see to it that they are reading the Word, praying, and going to church because those are things we do together as families. We can demand from them, and then hold them accountable to, living like a Christian should live, practicing Christianity. At some point, however, a child has to take ownership of his own faith. At some point it is not only the God of his fathers, but it has to be his God too, his Lord and Savior. Have you ever considered what role the school plays in that?

Ralph Waldo Emerson is credited with saying, “I pay the schoolmaster, but ‘tis the school boys that educate my son.” That is a frightening thought that rings with some truth, thus reinforcing the importance of sending your children to a school where the other families value the same things you value. In spite of Emerson’s quip, what is being practiced and taught in the school are even more important. A school that does not go against but instead reinforces what children learn about the Christian faith at home and at church is far more likely to help you prepare your child for a lifetime of Christian living. But how do you know which school will do that?

I mentioned last week that I will be writing about the “Good Soil” survey over the next few weeks. The survey reports on alumni from all types of schools. These are alumni who grew up in Christian families and are now between the ages of 24 and 42. Alumni from classical Christian schools, especially ACCS accredited schools like Trinitas, will be our focus. Two of the areas the survey measures in alumni are Christian commitment and Christian lifestyle.

Christian Commitment

Alumni from classical Christian schools like Trinitas are about twice as likely to regularly attend church and small groups, to read their Bibles regularly, and to volunteer at church than alumni from other Christian schools or homeschools. When compared to alumni of secular schools, alumni of ACCS schools are about six times more likely to remain committed to the practices of Christianity. Remember, all those surveyed, whether at secular or Christian schools, were from Christian families.

Is that a guarantee that every kid who graduates from a classical Christian school is going to be a steadfast Christian when she leaves home? No. But there is tremendous value in being steeped in the Word and the rich history and tradition of the Christian Faith every day at school.

Christian Lifestyle

Again, alumni from ACCS schools are almost twice as likely to live lifestyles that accord with their faith as alumni from other Christian schools or homeschools, and five times more likely than alumni of secular schools. These classical Christian alums respect church authority and give to the church. They also exhibit moral standards consistent with orthodox Christianity; for example, they are less likely to be divorced or separated after marriage, and less likely to cohabitate before marriage. They are also more likely to volunteer outside their church and for more hours.

Why the disparity between alumni from classical Christian schools and other forms of Christian schooling? What is the difference? Practices and curricula make a big difference. At Trinitas our goal is to teach all knowledge as an integrated whole with the Scriptures at the center. We aspire to what we call a Christ-centered model, that is, all things hold together in Christ. There is no field of study, no pursuit, no knowledge or understanding or wisdom outside of Christ’s dominion. We approach everything we do with that truth firmly in mind. We also start every school day together reading and memorizing God’s word, confessing the creeds of the Faith, singing Psalms and hymns, and praying the prayers handed down by Christ’s Church through the ages. We begin our first classes of the day with the Proverb of the day, and then end the day together with a Proverb and the “Doxology.” We hold God’s word as our standard for living and hold ourselves accountable to it. When these practices are in accord with what happens in a student’s home and church, they become part of the fabric of her being.

The curricula of classical Christian schools develop a unique perspective for students. Students who learn the history of the world from beginning to present day—and largely through primary sources and classical literature—understand that they are made of the same flesh and bone as Adam and Eve. These students gain a historical context for their existence and a foundation for their faith that helps them see themselves and their place in the world with an enviable clarity.

Screen Shot 2020-02-28 at 7.46.51 AMNext week we will take a look at the profile that addresses college and career preparedness as we work our way through the “Good Soil” survey. If you are the parent of a classical Christian student, I hope you are encouraged by what we’ve discovered so far. If you are a Christian parent looking for a school for your child, and you value a commitment to Christianity and living that shows evidence of the faith, I invite you to visit Trinitas.




Topics: Blog Posts, Parenting, Alumni, Christian Education, Christian Living

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